well, I had a nice weekend, my sister and brother in law have made it in to town, I am very excited… Drove up to Stockton this weekend to give them a greeting and spend some time in my hometown. I need to heed my wifes advice and stop trying to give my opinion on things and let them work it out… this is very hard for me, as anyone who knows me can tell you I find my opinion just to hard to give up. But, as always Wendy is a sound source of advice and I will take it to heart. Plus I could tell they are stressed and I can only imagine. I just want to see them happy.

I was thinking though of the quote that I had used before and then thought of how this could be changed to add a bit of incite onto this situation, it went like this: “most people when given the choice will choose unhappiness over uncertainty” I thought this was a wise statement because how often does fear just stop us cold in our tracks. But, as I thought about My sister and brother as they transition into their new life’s and their focus on maintaining their current net worth at the expense of all of life’s little joy’s I thought it may be changed to this: “most people when given the choice will choose unhappiness over uncertainty, but it is the fool who chooses both”

Of course this should be taken as a grain of salt, as they have already made changes that not many people would have the guts to do and I am proud of them both, but it was just a thought.

I start another work week whooo aaaaaaaa…………. I hope this one is a bit more relaxing than the last couple, I am excited to see my dad again, Layla is crawling all over the place and as always her smile is the best part of my day, that and the love of family and friends. This when placed into perspective makes the world seem rather simple.

One last note, I am currently reading “the God delusion” it is written by an atheist and it is a fascinating look at religion and God. I think all Christians should read this book in their life to see the world from a different light, it has really been a fascinating journey thus far. I am concurrently listening to another book titled freakenomics in the car, it is equally fascinating……… I will keep you updated…