My Aunt Eleanor has just completed her memoir called Childhood Memories. I plan on publishing a few excerpts from her memoir in this blog later.
The polio virus attacked her legs when she was 4 months old, leaving her on crutches until she was around 65. During that time, she managed to hold a job, drive, take care of her home, cook, teach piano, and take care of my my uncle when he had Alzheimer’s. There’s a flock of people who love her.
She got around on crutches most of her life until she’d injured her arms, wrists, and legs too often. A three wheel scooter has replaced the crutches. It took her a long time to accept having to use a scooter while she was still on crutches. She thought it would take away her independence. A care giver now puts her in and takes her out of bed each day, something she was able to do for herself until a couple year ago. She grieved for a long time. It was as if she’d lost a loved one.
It’s an interesting story and not badly written. My only criticism is that she left out a lot of material because she didn’t want to hurt anyone. I’m hoping to convince her to write those parts and give them to me so I can publish them later. I tried to convince her that honesty is the most valued possession of a writer. She disagrees. That isn’t to say she hasn’t been honest, but she hasn’t told the whole story.